Thread at Happy Bachelors Forum
I did this entry back in 2007
I just finished reading the Manipulated Man and Esther Vilar cracked open some very important codes for us as well as the Sex Ploytation author. What I will be doing is decoding the codes which women tell their men.
Coded = What she says
Decoded = What She means
First I will start with the codes which Esther Vilar cracked open for us in the book “The Manipulated Man”
Coded = A man must be able to protect me.
Decoded = A man must be able to spare me from all forms of discomfort. (What else could he protect me from? Robbers? An atom bomb?)
Coded = I need a man to make me feel secure.
Decoded = Above all, he must keep his money worries to himself.
Coded = I must be able to look up to a man.
Decoded = To be a possible candidate as a husband, he must be more intelligent, responsible, courageous, industrious and stronger than I am. Otherwise, what purpose would he serve?
Coded = Of course I would give up my career if my husband asked me.
Decoded = Once he is earning enough money, I am never going to work again.
Coded = The only thing I want in life is to make him happy.
Decoded = I will do everything in my power to stop him from knowing how much I exploit him.
Coded = I will never bother him with trivial problems.
Decoded = I’ll do anything rather than keep him away from his work.
Coded = I am there for him alone.
Decoded = No other man has to work for me.
Coded = In the future I shall devote my life to my family.
Decoded = I’m not going to lift another finger for the rest of my life. It’s his turn now.
Coded = I don’t believe in Women’s Liberation.
Decoded = I’m not such a fool. I’d rather let a man do the work for me.
Coded = After all, we are living in an age of equality.
Decoded = If he thinks he can order me about, just because he earns money for me, he is sorely mistaken.
Coded = I’m so bad at doing things like that.
Decoded = That’s a job he will have to do. What’s he there for, anyway?
Coded = He knows absolutely everything.
Decoded = He even serves the function of an encyclopedia.
Coded = If a couple really loves each other, there is no need to get married at once.
Decoded = He is being a bit obstinate, but I’ll soon get him around in bed.
Coded = I love him
Decoded = He is an excellent work horse.
Now there are more codes that have in cracked in Sex Ploytation.
Coded = I want a man who’s is a provider.
Decoded = I want to be spared from the necessity of having to work for a living and to have a lifestyle I can't afford on my own.
Coded = I really like sex.
Decoded = Until he slips the ring on my finger.
Coded = I like older men.
Decoded = They have more money, are less sexually demanding, and
if I marry one, he could kick off soon enough for me to
have fun with his cash.
Coded = I want to stay home and be able to take care of the children.
Decoded = Talking on the phone with my girlfriends while I keep my eye on the kids the kids sounds a hell of a lot easier than slaving 8 hours a day at an office. Pretty soon I'll be able to pressure my husband into paying for a nanny and a maid, and I'll never have to lift a finger again.
Coded = I like you as a friend, dating you.
Decoded = You’re income isn’t large enough for me to waste my time.
Coded = You’re a jerk!
Decoded = My pussy power isn’t working on you.
Coded = Politically correct
Decoded = Pussy whipped
Coded = You’re a gentlemen
Decoded = He's a truly brainwashed sucker who will pay for everything and won't ask for sex.
Coded = You’re sexually harassing me.
Decoded = I want to be able to freely use my sexuality to get ahead in life, but I don't want to be accountable for my actions.
Coded = I’m being discriminated against.
Decoded = I don't have talent, skills, or training to get a better position, but I want to be promoted anyway, and be paid "as much as a man”.
Coded = Men are “pigs”.
Decoded = I have learned to lie to myself about my sexual desires, and prostitute them, and scorn men because they don't.
Coded = I want a man who will treat me with “class” who will treat me “like a lady”.
Decoded = He will spend money without reservation or hesitation for my pleasure, and will demand nothing in return.
Coded = Men can’t communicate. On me, me, me.
Decoded = They aren't able to read my mind, and they aren't focusing
Coded = Dating + Marriage
Decoded = Legalized Prostitution
Coded = I believe in equal rights
Decoded = As long as standards are lowered; as long as I can still use my sexuality to get ahead; as long as I can earn an equal salary but still expect a man to pay for me; as long as I can attend male-only schools and join male-only clubs, but still subscribe to institutions which discriminate against men;and as long as I am not susceptible to draft or combat.