Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Is the Manosphere really dead?

I will very rarely post but I did browse Hawaiian Libertarian discussing whether or not the Manosphere is dead. I left this comment in his comment section and I will post it here as well for all to read

The Manosphere is dead or alive and well depending on how you characterize it.

If you are talking about MRA’s trying to fight the system and get laws changed against long odds. Yes the Manosphere is dead.

If you are talking about websites or blogs where one person is trying be the big rock star and have tons of followers through the internet. The Manasphere is dead.

But is the Manasphere really dead? I think it’s alive and well and MGTOW will be growing in big numbers even if most of them don’t realize they are a MGHOW.

If you are a young man, there is a good chance you have seen an uncle, a father, a older brother, a male friend, or a male relative get screwed in the legal system. An example would be my brother in law. My brother in law is a Christian, a very hard working man and a man with integrity. Well his first wife (my sister is wife #2) had an affair with another man and wanted a divorce. It turned out he had to pay the legal fees for both him and his ex wife, he had to pay her alimony, child support, and got the bigger of the two properties. On top that his ex wife brainwashed his youngest child where now his youngest child want nothing to do with him and it’s been years since he has been in contact with his youngest child. Now his first wife made out like a bandit but this is something I took notice of, and is one of the biggest reasons I will never get married period in my lifetime. This means one less woman who will get to have a wedding day sometime in her lifetime.

 Now this is one of millions of stories how men get screwed in divorce court. Even if many men don’t read MGTOW/MRA websites, individually will bail out. Thousands or millions of men individually will see what a sham marriage is and will come to the conclusion even if they were the perfect husband; they could get destroyed in an instant once their future wife got bored of them. Now you got thousands if not millions of men bailing out even without stumbling onto a manosphere website. Is the manasphere really dead? I think not!

Another subject matter would be the theory that 80% of the women in their prime years are having sex with just 20% of the guys. This means 80% of the guys feel neglected and not appreciated for the hard work that they did to try to be a productive member in society. Now that many these guys finally made it into their 30’s. How many of them really want to get in relationships with 30 year old plus women who after being ignored and treated like shit by them when they were younger and hotter. Especially when you got escort and Asian massage parlor sites like myredbook, eroticmp, usasexguide where if they paid $200, these guys can now have the sexual experience with hotter and younger women. Now many would say these guys are losers. The reality is paying and escort or an asian massage parlor babe $200 once a week, every other week, or once a month. Compared to what a marriage or divorce would cost, is a bargain. Now they are getting to enjoy sexual experiences for life with attractive college age ladies at a fraction of the cost a marriage or a divorce would cost. Again many of these men will never read MGTOW or MRA sites but will bail simply based on their life experiences. I forgot to go into the rapid rise of internet porn, development of Virtual Sex Technologies and Overseas sex vacations.

Now how many of these men worked hard and did everything they were suppose do but couldn’t get their career going but continued to get spited on for not having necessary experience or for other bullshit reasons like being discriminated against by feminist human resource departments. Now instead of getting a career going in their mid 20’s their career might not start until their 30’s if even that. This means in their 30’s they may see their first year of entry level pay rather than being on year 6 pay and having 5 years of full salary pay behind them already. Now many of these guys will decide it’s just not worth getting married and having kids simply based on financial costs and worried about their job security after these experiences even without the knowledge of the Family Court system or having any ill will towards women what so ever.

Now how many young men in the following generations will see that going to college and working hard is no guaranteed path to success, therefore will put minimal effort towards working hard and will spend countless hours playing video games or jerking of on internet porn or put all their effort into becoming a Pick Up Artist.

Now instead of carrying the burden of getting married and having kids, those who end making it into their 30’s unscathed may very well decide that if they had a college sweet heart who appreciated him and was loyal to him through thick and thin they most likely would have gotten married and had kids. Now these guys see the freedom of not being tied down to marriage and divorce and will have more financial resources and more free time to themselves. Should they get a uncontrollable sex urge they can get rent a attractive college age college escort babe for an hour or simply bust one out viewing internet porn.

Even though it’s young men who are feeling the brunt of this hostility in their teens and 20’s. When it’s all said done, these misandrist costs will transfer to women after big 30 hits.

Thousands if not millions of young men will bail out simply based on their own life experiences. Contrary to what some bloggers have say, the manosphere is alive and well and is growing by the thousands even if only a miniscule minority bothers reading MGTOW/MRA sites and blogs.