Let’s start with the old system, pre 1960’s (system #1)
What Men got
When a man got married he married a young woman in the 18-23 range with a very low sexual partner count
He received home cooked meals, a cleaned house, the mother of children looking after the offspring
In the legal system, it was fault divorce meaning if your wife was having an affair, she would get held accountable for her actions and those men would still get to keep their assets and their kids.
What Women got
They got a financial provider/meal ticket, for herself and her offspring.
Also, she gets to have access to a man’s financial resources during her decline years
To sum this part up I copied and paste a few paragraphs of what Zed wrote in another thread.
Back in 1970 Norman Mailer wrote a book called "Prisoner of Sex" in which he dealt with (in his customary oblique way) the many kinds of power women had over men. He started off by confessing the "firmest of male prejudices - that women had the better half of the deal already."
Through their biological capability to produce children and the caretaking role which naturally arose from that, women were able to demand that men do everything else and hand over the fruits of their labors to women. Men simply had to do the hard and dangerous jobs, and become as successful as they could, because otherwise they had no social identity - they were non-entities.
Men were kept imprisoned in the workforce by a universal system of social pressures mostly designed and enforced by women - even if they often did so indirectly using men as their agents.
Now to System #2 1960’s Model
System #1 was deemed inadequate and slavery by women and tried something new.
What Women got was being able to freely have sex with whoever they want. Hypergamy-the fun exciting 20% of the guys, while ignoring the rest during their youth, didn’t have to cook for men, or clean men’s house.
In other words women get to live life as they see fit, have their own careers and don’t owe men shit.
While up front, it appears women have the better deal but over the course of a lifetime this favors men more favorably. This is because under this system men can freely go live their lives as they see fit as well. Meaning their financial resources isn’t tied down to women and kids. This means he won’t have to work as hard, have more free time for hobbies or another way of putting it free from the shackles of obligations and liabilities.
Under this system women have the better deal when both men and women are in their 20’s. This system substantially favors men when both men and women are in their 30’s, 40’s, 50’s, 60’s and beyond.
If women resent beta men so much during their youth that they will end up throwing away the opportunity to have a family and have access to a man’s resources once they are no longer the hot 18-25 year old, this is their choice.
Me personally I’m fine with this because while it certainly sucked in the beginning stages this deal got a whole lot better after the first 5 years or so.
1970’s and beyond system/model #3
Feminists and women came up with a way to give women all of the best parts of each system while giving men the very worst parts of each system.
Meaning here is what women get
Still get to ride the cock carousel in their 20’s with the exciting guys.
Can get married in their 30’s with a beta provider, still have access to a beta man’s financial resources in old age while successfully deny her beta husband her most desirable years.
No longer have to cook, clean the house, can give beta husband a honey do list but still get to spend his hard earned money.
Can freely commit adultery without be held accountable for her actions. Whenever she gets bored of her beta husband she can file a false domestic abuse charge and have him arrested and kicked out of the house, can deny her ex beta husband access to the kids but still receive child support, receive alimony, brainwash the kids to hate their father (ex beta husband), keep the house while her ex beta husband makes the mortgage payments, gets half of ex beta husbands 401 K etc
What do responsible men of society get out of this?
The terms are bail out an ex carousel cock rider who only has at best 10% of her sexual currency value left while the other 20% of the guys got to enjoy the other 90% of her sexual currency value at bargain rates. In terms of marriage, she can get fat eating bon bons all day on the couch watching TV, can nag you to no end, won’t cook, won’t clean the house or do laundry, give you a big honey do list in terms of household chores, can freely tell you how fail to measure up compared to the other guys she got to have fun with in the past, cut off the sex supply, freely spend your hard earn money away and have little or no money and free time for hobbies. Are you then going to divorce her, well she gets half the assets, alimony, half the 401K, if children are involved get to pay child support (possibly on imputed income), if children are involved lose the home while still getting make the mortgage payments while at the same time trying to pay rent for a small apartment.
Obviously a man has got to be clinically insane to come close to accepting the current system that feminists, women and the government are attempting to impose. It’s also too late to receive any benefits from the old system even though women were getting the better half of the deal.
Under the second system of Women Liberation, while women greatly benefited from this during the 18-25 years and it sucked for men during those years, after those years this system greatly benefits men more than women and it’s remarkably amazing women took the bait. Because women will have to pay the piper/consequences for being short sighted in going for this system.
For men under this system the terms them especially once they hit 30 til death will only have to financially support themselves and no one else. This means not having to work longer hours or a more stressful job should they choose. Now these guys will have more free time and money on their hands to engage in hobbies they enjoy doing. Of course this means less stress, no nagging wife no fear of divorce etc.
As women get older their attractiveness goes down, as men get older, their sexual hormone levels decrease as well. These guys’ sex drives become more manageable when they get into their 30’s as opposed to when they were 20. Should the sex drive still be there, rampant internet porn is free, virtual sex technology should get better as the years goes on. What if these guys want to enjoy a sexual experience, there are plenty college age escort babes these guys could sample for $200-300 an hour which is a bargain compared to what married and divorced men have to pay for a rapidly aging wife/ex wife. As these guys get more income, they will be perfectly capable of taking themselves on overseas sex vacations should they decide to do so.
However, women thought they could temporarily have system number two during their 20’s when it benefited them during those years and then change it back to a different system as it suited/benefited them them. Of course a growing number men like myself said no fucking way ladies, you got to take the bad with the good and you don’t get to have it both ways. Although, women wanted system #2 to be temporarily but now that I’m around 30, I’m damn sure to make system #2 permanent. No amount of man up/shaming articles will convince me otherwise.
To conclude, women can do what they want, no big deal. But then I, along with every male on earth, have every right to do whatever we want too. Women want casual irresponsible sex in their 20s and a wallet in their 30s. I don't give a flying fuck. What I know is that I will NOT have it this way -- if a girl spends her youth chasing dick, I am out. And fuck off to anyone who tries to shame me about this.